WANTED...

Well as we all know, in a few days it going to be 2010. Everytime when the New Year comes around, people are always talking about what they are going to change and do different. Well, Im one of those folks. I want a boo. Straight up, just like that. I am so sick of being alone. I just want that person I can talk with, connect with and not worry about any foolishness. In the words of the great Mary J. Blige "just take me as I am". There is one person I'm feeling but one day there in a relationship and one day there not. Are you confused? YEAH me too. Thats exactly what I have no time for. Games are for children and I don't play with people children. Lots of folks say take it slow when looking. Date around and see whats out there at sea. I take that advise very strongly. I just want God to send me the right person. PLEASE!!!!!!

I am da club.....

We all have had our share of club experiences. We all have seen some crazy stuff in these clubs. So I took it upon myself to create a list of rules that should be followed in the club. Granted its not all of the rules but its the most important rules in my eyes.

So here it is for the Ladies and Gentlemen...Club etiquette

For my ladies, if a dude comes up to you and speaks and your not interested, give him the common courtesy of saying "no thanks and have a good night" Some of you females are so rude and disrespectful. Apparently there was something that sparked his eye for him to even speak to you.

For my dudes, if you see a lady that is attractive to you and she so happens to walk by you, don't grab by the arm and pull her to you. That's Domestic Violence.

For my dudes, if your trying to holla at a chick and she rejects you, don't get mad and call her out of her name. Be a Gentleman and just say "OK..well have a good night" Maybe that will change her mind about you.

For my dudes, if you do proceed to get the chicks number that's good. But don't follow her around the club. Your only being a stalker.

For my ladies, you all know when you go to the club you wanna dance, so please if you wanna jump on stage and dance, PLEASE have some panties on. Even though its a good sight, that's just not lady like.

For my dudes, mainly all clubs have a dress code, Please come dressed to part. It is aggravating to stand in line with your homeboy for an hour to only get turned away at the door because he got sneakers on.

For my dudes and ladies, please have some sort of breath freshener on deck. Nobody wants to talk to someone with bad breath.

For my dudes, if your talking to a young lady and her friend is standing by her, 9 times out of ten she is not cock blocking. They probably came together.

For both of you, its cool to dance close together. But if I have to offer you a condom then we have a problem.

For both, don't drink if you can hold your liq.

For both, tip the bartender and trust me they will get you right.

For my dudes, don't grab a girls ass. That is sexual harassment and your smart self can go to JAIL.

For both, don't blame it on the goose, you just loose.

For both, just be cool in the club. Don't act as if you never saw a dude or female.

For both, leave the club at the club.

For both, when your leaving the club and you know your throwed off, PLEASE PLEASE, PLEASE don't drive. Find somebody to take you home or call a cab. DUI ain't no joke.

For my ladies, it is not cute for you to get extremely drunk. Like Sommore said, Be a fucking lady and sip don't drink.

Congratulations to Miramar High School

Congratulations to the football players of Miramar High School for winning there way to play in a state championship game. Tonight 12/11/2009, Miramar faced off against Miami Central High School. Many people spoke down on Miramar saying that Miami Central would beat the hell out of them. But that didn't happen. Miramar beat Miami Central 21-14. Next week, Miramar will face off against Deland High School for the State Championship. Show your support to the players of Miramar.

The Mean Girls

The Bad Girls Club ain't got shit on these chicks. I know these chicks as The Mean Girls. Now don't get it twisted, these ladies are far from ghetto and ignorant as the ladies on Bad Girls Club. Even thought they do have some ghetto tendencies, the Mean Girls are a crew of smart, college educated ladies who know how to get down and have fun. From there occasional "T" parties at the Ale house, to there nights at the Lizard or there crazy conversions on Twitter.com. They give it to you raw and uncensored.

So you think you wanna be a Mean Girls...I think NOT! As they would say, "you can speak to us, but you can't sit with us." Gotta love the Mean Girls.

It's follow friday on Twitter.com

So I decided to do a special follow Friday on my blog. So here is my list of folks I think you guys should follow.

* @Diva_Swagga - This is my kin folks. She cool as hell. She's loved by all and hated by many but she don't give a damn

* @hecallsmeb - This is my dawg. She is as real as they come

* @DatDamnDomo - This is my mmfd (my muthafuckin dawg)

* @MsD0802 , @MSBEAUTIFUL86, @ritaofPGE, @divaofdade, and @brandNEWtype - They are known as the Mean Girls. These chicks give it to you raw and uncensored. If you want the "T", trust and believe they will give it to you.

* @thatdamnkwash - The king of the Ustream. You will definitely be rolling on the floor laughing your ass off.

* @misstp90 - SIGH!!!! I love you Miss P. This young lady is the queen of YouTube giveaways. Check her out on www.youtube.com/missptv9090

* @MRUP2PAR - my dawg since High School.

* @MyriBaby - I believe in Miracles..(insider)

If I forgot you, I so sorry but enjoy your Friday.

Have some class....

There are approximately 1 million people who use social sites like Facebook.com, Twitter.com, and Myspace.com

Now, I think these site are wonderful. Its a great way to keep in contact with friends from high school, college, or kids from the block. It is also a great way to promote and advertise yourself or business. But I think we are starting to take advantage of these sites. I must admit I am guilty of this as well. Have you every turned on your computer, logged into your account and the first thing you on somebodies status is" I fuckin hate you and you suck".

Basically what I'm trying to say is stop putting your personal business out on these social sites. People lets remember, this is the internet. Like I said before I am guilty of this but I have learned from my ignorance. I thought it was cute for everybody to know your miserable and upset but its not. Now don't get me wrong, when I say personal business I mean, who cares if he/she left you, who cares if you got haters, who cares if your partner lied to you, who cares about your relationship problems. Especially relationship problems. That is your business. To me when you put your relationship problems out there, you are inviting people into your personal space and thats how alot of this shit starts. You have to know your limits. I'm not telling you how to use your Facebook, Twitter, or Myspace but have some more class people.

...And he died over some real nigga sh*t

Yesterday I was on YouTube and I came across this video. The name of the video was HE DIED IN MY ARMS OVA SOME REAL NIGGA SH*T. In this video, the young lady described in graphic details how a young black man was shot and killed in her presence. She also explained how the gunmen continued to shoot him once he was down on the ground. She says the guy grabbed her leg and begged for her help. So she grabbed the guy in her arms and held him and he died in her arms.

I'm just here to say, we need to wake up and educate our communities. At the rate were going, there isn't going to be a future generation. Young black men sit down some where and get a education instead of being on the block all day and night having your mama worried about where you at. Why are we killing each other. Why? cause he looked at you wrong or is it that he owe you money, or is it he said something that disrespected you. Man grow up. Ever heard the saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt." You think you hard and a goon cause you kill that nigga. Huh? Well guess what, YOUR NOT, you soft and eventually you'll be somebodies girlfriend while your sitting in that prison cell for the rest of your life. This subject just gets on my nerves cause it makes me think of people like Jeffrey Johnson.

Jeffrey Johnson was smart and intelligent young man who had big thing going for himself. But before graduating from high school, he was killed over some real nigga sh*t. Why is it that we got more black men in prison then in college. And we wonder why they taking money needed to fund education to build prisons because young black men keep going to jail for real nigga sh*t. Black men take a stand and be men and not niggas..

It's just time to step up...